For weeks we've heard about these so-called "debate parties" that will be taking place when Belmont becomes the host to the second exchange between the two candidates. What are they? What is the value? How can I get an invite?

During our recent visit to the first debate at Ole Miss in Oxford, Mississippi, I witnessed one of those parties first hand. This was far from a black tie affair. Just a bunch of curious folks sitting on lawn chairs huddled in front of a big screen at the city square. While I'm sure some folks had high-end appetizers and champagne, the point is, they were'nt watching the debate alone.

Hosts of the debate encourage this type of gathering. For Nashville, it's the chance to witness history as a community. It's also a way to exchange ideas in a not so threatening way. I remember one woman I talked to, told me that she feels such gatherings encourage the bi-partisan conversation that elected officials seem to strive for and that all Americans wish happened more often. At a debate party, discussion is the goal. While there may be a clear winner and loser of the debate itself, it's a chance for people to discuss and digest, with the specific goal of having smart conversation.

There are some gatherings already planned, just go to the Belmont website for the specifics. Or invite a bunch of your friends, Republican, Democrat, Independent and other...you'll remember where you were on the night of a monumental event during a monumental election cycle.